In a raw and revealing interview with Entertainment Tonight on July 24, Real Housewives of Miami star Alexia Nepola, 58, laid bare her tumultuous journey following her divorce from Todd Nepola, 52, while addressing her regrets over a castmate feud and firing back at Stephanie Shojaee, 40. With emotions running high, Alexia didn’t hold back, exposing Todd’s misleading narrative about their split, confessing her failure to support Guerdy Abraira, 47, against Julia Lemigova, 53, and hinting at a brewing clash with Stephanie.
No Contact, No Closure: Alexia’s Break from Todd
Alexia confirmed that she and Todd are no longer on speaking terms, choosing a path of “no contact” to prioritize her peace and healing. “I had to choose me,” she declared, emphasizing her need for clarity after a painful year of reliving their breakup through RHOM footage filmed over a year ago. The emotional toll of watching their unraveling marriage onscreen has been “really hard,” she admitted, describing the experience as an “emotional rollercoaster.”
Reflecting on why she continued to reconnect with Todd post-divorce, Alexia revealed that love and a search for closure kept her tethered. “I thought closure came from him, but I’ve realized the only person who can give me closure is myself,” she shared. By stepping away, Alexia is focusing on her own healing, finding strength in solitude.
Todd’s Divorce Bombshell: A Betrayal Alexia Never Saw Coming
Alexia was blindsided by Todd’s decision to file for divorce, a move she believes stemmed from his desire to distance himself from RHOM. “I wish it would’ve been handled differently,” she said, longing for a mature conversation rather than an abrupt end. “We could’ve sat down like two loving adults and said, ‘I’m not happy.’ I would’ve fought for it, but I wasn’t expecting him to file.”
Despite noticing cracks in their marriage, Alexia’s hopeful nature led her to ignore the warning signs. “I’m a fighter, filled with hope,” she explained, admitting that Todd’s sudden exit left her reeling. She firmly rejected his claim that the show destroyed their marriage, insisting, “I’m not going to let him get away with that narrative. I’ve always lived my truth on TV—good days, bad days, hot and cold.”
Yet, her love for Todd remains unshaken. “I still love him, and I want to see him happy,” she confessed. “I don’t know how to not love someone once I’ve loved them.” Despite her efforts to salvage their relationship, reliving the heartbreak on RHOM has set her back, but Alexia remains open to love in the future. “I’m in love with love,” she said, hinting at new possibilities but remaining cautious about marriage after three husbands. “My life wouldn’t be complete without a partner.”
Regrets and Redemption: Alexia’s Apology to Guerdy
Turning to the drama within the RHOM cast, Alexia expressed deep regret over not defending Guerdy during her clash with Julia, particularly after Julia’s shocking water-tossing incident. “I wish I would’ve done more, stood up for her,” Alexia admitted, acknowledging that the group’s shock left them frozen. “Nobody should be disrespected that way. I feel terrible.” Her remorse underscores her commitment to repairing her bond with Guerdy as the fallout continues to unfold onscreen.
A Feud Ignites: Alexia vs. Stephanie
Alexia didn’t shy away from addressing her escalating tension with Stephanie Shojaee, who she claims “continues to come for me.” Highlighting the stark differences in their lives, Alexia pointed to her responsibilities as a mother to her son Frankie, who lives with disabilities from a past car accident. “My life is different,” she said. “I wake up giving Frankie his medication and making breakfast, not just doing glam like Stephanie. I love a Birkin bag, but that’s not my whole world.”
Her pointed remarks signal a brewing showdown, as Alexia seems ready to confront Stephanie’s provocations head-on, setting the stage for more drama in the RHOM universe.
A New Chapter for Alexia
As Alexia navigates her healing journey, she remains a beacon of resilience and authenticity. With her heart still open to love, regrets transformed into accountability, and a fiery resolve to challenge those who cross her, Alexia Nepola is reclaiming her narrative—one unapologetic step at a time. Fans can expect more revelations as RHOM continues to unravel the complexities of her life, both on and off the screen.