Nneka Ihim, a beloved star from “The Real Housewives of Potomac,” recently welcomed her first child, a son named Noah Jidechi Ikeoha Ihim, giving her a thrilling new role as a mother. This exciting chapter in her life has been a journey filled with struggles, triumphs, and an overwhelming sense of gratitude.
Announcing the birth exclusively to PEOPLE, Nneka described her newborn’s arrival on May 14 as a significant milestone, weighing in at 7 lbs and 1.4 oz. “The transition into motherhood has been amazing and pretty smooth,” she noted, emphasizing her joy and awe as she gazes at her son. “I just stare at him and think, ‘Wow, this is the person that was kicking me in the ribs all those months,'” she added with a chuckle, marking the indescribable bond that has formed the moment he entered the world
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For Nneka, the road to motherhood was not without its challenges. Earlier this year, she heartbreakingly shared that she lost Noah’s twin sibling during pregnancy. Despite that pain, she maintains a positive outlook on her journey, reflecting on the importance of her experiences. “If any of the prior IUIs or IVF embryo transfers worked, I wouldn’t have this exact little boy, and he is worth it all,” she stated, revealing the depth of her love and gratitude for Noah.
Family support has played a crucial role in this journey. Nneka expressed immense appreciation for her mother, who has been by her side since a few days before her C-section, guiding her through the early days of motherhood. She poignantly mentioned that her husband Ikenna’s mother, who passed away in 2019, would have been a significant support system as well. “But her sisters have really stepped up, preparing meals and helping out with Noah so we can catch a break,” she elaborated, highlighting the importance of familial bonds during this transformative time.
As Nneka adjusts to her new role, she cherishes the peaceful moments shared with her son. “My favorite time of the day are his brief wake periods,” she revealed, describing the joy of those innocent stares she receives from Noah. However, she also candidly discusses the challenges she faces, particularly during diaper changes. The little one seems to have a strong dislike for cold air, resulting in a chaotic yet humorous experience for new parents.
Nneka’s heartfelt reflections illustrate not just the joy that comes with motherhood, but also the realities of the challenges faced by new parents. Her story is a testament to resilience, love, and the life-changing moments that parenthood brings.