In a revealing discussion on their podcast “Let’s Not Talk About the Husband,” reality star Lisa Rinna and actor Harry Hamlin opened up about the intimate aspects of their marriage, shedding light on how they’ve managed to sustain their relationship over 32 years. As one of Hollywood’s rare successful couples, their insights into maintaining romance, despite a busy life filled with children and careers, provide valuable lessons for many.
Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin share secrets to a lasting marriage.
During the podcast episode aired on June 6, the couple emphasized the significance of quality time in their relationship. Harry, 73, commented, “When you’re married for as long as we have been, there’s a kind of shorthand you develop over the years.” Lisa, 61, chimed in, underscoring the necessity of scheduling time together amidst their busy lives, especially with children to care for.
This couple’s strategy to keep the flame alive included taking spontaneous trips together. “I think you just have to make time for it, and you have to create space for it like everything else,” Lisa articulated. Their proactive approach highlights a critical aspect of relationships: the need for intentionality in connecting with one another.
However, it isn’t all about physical intimacy, as Harry pointed out that their enduring relationship is multifaceted. “Intimacy can take a lot of different forms too,” he noted, reminding listeners that intimacy extends beyond just physical interactions. Through their experience, the couple demonstrates that active communication about needs and desires can solidify a partnership.
Lisa’s adventurous spirit is evident, as she shared her experience of taking pole dancing classes to regain confidence post-baby. She humorously revealed that she accumulated several costumes, which led to a funny incident when their daughters, Amelia and Deliah, discovered these outfits hidden away. “They thought it was so funny,” Lisa recalled, showing a lighter, more playful side of their dynamic.
The heart of their discussion revolves around open communication—a vital element for any couple looking to sustain their relationship over time. Harry concluded with practical advice, encouraging listeners to openly discuss desires with their partners. “If you can get straight with that, you can keep going for a long time,” he asserted, encapsulating the essence of their marriage philosophy.